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Monthly Dinner
monthly · meetup · best for local friends and small groups
A recurring table. The date is fixed, the place rotates.
Why it works
"We should get dinner" is the most common promise friends break. Fixing the date — first Thursday, say — turns an intention into a default, and rotating who picks the place keeps it fresh.
How to run it
- Fix the date: e.g. first Thursday of every month.
- Rotate who picks the restaurant. The picker books it.
- No cancelling by text. If it has to move, the mover proposes two new dates.
Add a friend, and BondLoops tracks the streak, nudges you when it's due, and keeps the shared journal.